My lovely girlfriend and I have been searching for a church for a while now and we have decided to let everyone in on our search. As we visit a church each Sunday we will each write a post about it and we would love to hear some feeback about our feelings towards the church. Also if you attend a church and you think it might be good for us, please let us know.



Tuesday, May 31, 2011

New Post

  Sorry for no post last week from me but it was a crazy week with a death in the family. I just never had time for it. We did go back to Montgomery County Church of Christ with not only Kat and Zak but my parents as well. That's right everyone, the Domers were in full force this week. I will be posting later but I welcome any posts from the people who went to church this week with Lindsey and I. I would like to keep everyone interested as we work on our posts so I will leave you all with a question of the week.

Does worship need instruments?


Let the answers begin!!!

Monday, May 23, 2011

No pictures

  Sorry fans, I forgot to take any pictures this last Sunday. I know I have let you guys down but I will still work on it. Look for my post later in the week and also don't forget to look at this weeks question which is still happening. It's not too late to throw in your opinion (Brain Siemens, I am talking to you). That question again is, is a good campus important for a church, why or why not? Thanks for following!

Sunday, May 22, 2011

Montgomery County Church of Christ | Part II

Today, Todd and I went back to Montgomery County Church of Christ for their teen-led Sunday service. It was pretty awesome!

Once again, the music was acapella. Although the songs were hymns, they were upbeat and there were several teens singing on stage alongside the adults. I really enjoyed the music but I wish that the words were on a screen. A couple in front of us noticed that we didn't know the words, so they gave us their hymnal. I am still confused on how to obtain a hymnal.

I really enjoyed the teens that spoke during the service. Two teens came up and welcomed the congregation. Two other teens gave their conversion stories (aka testimonies). Two more teens called the congregation to give before the offering. All the teens referenced scripture and then gave their interpretation and personal reflections on it.

During communion, Emelie sang the Britt Nicole song, "Hanging On". She did a fabulous job and I really appreciated the music during communion. The previous Sunday we had communion there, there was no music.

Two other girls also performed a song acapella that they composed themselves. (I think the song was called "Solid Ground".) It was also incredible! I was so impressed not only with their voices but with their song-writing ability.

For the sermon, a guy named Richard spoke. Richard works with the teens. His message was based on a topic he has been working through and reflecting on during the past few months. The topic was grace and he made some really great points while still being funny at the same time. He did very well for his first sermon. Another student came up after him and shared about two men in the Bible.

If I had to narrow it down, I think my three favorite parts of the service were:
1. How encouraging the congregation was to each teen up on stage.
2. How welcoming and friendly everyone was to Todd and I.
A woman came up to us at the beginning of the service and welcomed us and gave each of us a hug. She noticed that we were new and she remembered that it was our second time visiting, even though we skipped a week. Several people came to talk to each of us afterwards and I could barely keep up with everyone who wanted to talk to us!
3. The two teens who gave their testimonies.

Todd and I still need to go back to hear the lead pastor speak and to experience the band that Emelie mentioned. Perhaps Part III next week?

Thursday, May 19, 2011

Pictures!!

As promised here are some pictures from this past Sunday. I may have a post from Zak soon but we will see if he will follow through and don't forget to respond to the question of the week. Also please feel free to let us know if we are not talking about or doing something that you might want to see or hear about. Thanks loyal fans!!!





Tuesday, May 17, 2011

Lifepoint

This week Lindsey and I went to Lifepoint church with Zak and Kat Eltzroth. I have been to this church but I only went to their youth department, which was very enjoyable. Zak and Kat have been to this church for the last two weeks and they invited us for this last Sunday.

  The first thing I noted about this church was the beautiful campus they have. You are going up and down these hills and just POW there it is, down a hill in a wide open space. I know this is not an important thing when looking for a church but it was just nice to see. We were clearly told where to go to park and there was no confusion in that matter. Again not too important but it’s really nice to have.

  Going into the building I have to agree with Lindsey, the welcome was not really there. If they had a welcome team they were not on point and it was a little awkward. That being said there were hundreds of people so I can understand being missed.

   The place was packed but one incredible thing was they had ushers who would know where open seats are and they would take people there. We got there a little late and it seemed like there was nowhere to sit but they had these ushers around and you could say how many people in your party and they would take you there. I have never experienced that and I must say it was a genius thing to do. Take the awkwardness away of finding a seat, brilliant.

   Next on tap was worship and I have to admit I was disappointed. They had a really talented band with incredible singers but they played 5 different songs that all sounded the same and were all slow and reflective. I know those songs have there place and I do enjoy them but even after the talk, they played a really slow song that did not leave me jazzed for the day, it made me ready for a nap. All the songs were formulaic and very similar. I guess I just had high expectations and they did not deliver.

   Next was the main talk of the morning and this was the weakest part of the morning to me. It was clear that the congregation loves their main pastor but his talk was one of the most confusing talks I have been a part of. At first I chalked it up to being there for week three of a three week series but I have been assured by Zak that none of it has been easy to follow. The main problem, I felt, was he had no continuity in his talk. He was all over the place with ideas and points but had no real life application. I left confused and in the realization that this talk did nothing for me. I hope the rest of Lifepoint feels differently but it was not for me.

   The best part of the morning was when they had a going away video package for Lance their youth pastor. I have met Lance several times and he is a really funny and awesome guy. This video package was one of the funniest things I have ever seen. Apparently Lance is moving to be a lead pastor in another state. I wish it was close to hear because I would love to go to that church but I guess its just not in the cards.

  All in all I was not very impressed with Lifepoint but can see why so many people go there. I know that we will find where we are supposed to be.

  Also do not fret loyal fans, I do have pictures and I will post them on Thursday. Also to keep you enticed I have it on good authority that Zak will be sending me a guest post so stay tuned for that.

  I have decided to do a question of the week from now on and I encourage everyone to respond and share their opinion. This weeks question is:

 Is a good campus important for a church, why or why not?  

Sunday, May 15, 2011

LifePoint Church

This morning, Todd and I attended LifePoint Church in Reisterstown with his friends, Kat and Zak. It was pretty far away from my house. We had stopped for bagels (!!!) before church so we were 5-10 minutes late for service. Worth it? Of course- I love carbs. :)

Walking in, no one greeted me. The usher by the door was too busy talking to a friend to notice that I was waiting for a bulletin. (Don't worry, I got one. See below.) It would have helped if we had gotten there on time or if I had been there before because upon walking in the auditorium area, I was immediately confused as to where to go. It was very dark and crowded- the majority of the seats were already filled. We ended up sitting on the side of the stage but in the front. It was not an optimal place to sit.

The service began with 2-3 contemporary worship songs. The singers were phenomenal! They also had a full-out band including drums, guitars, a keyboard and a flute! All the words to the songs were on the screen, unlike the church we attended last week. I knew about half the songs... from the radio. Although the music was great, it was incredibly LOUD! It was the kind of loud where you can hear the drums vibrating in your chest. I couldn't hear myself sing.

After worship was the sermon. It was Part 3 of a series entitled "eMotion: Surface for Air". I tried very hard to listen and concentrate but by the end, I was still somewhat confused. I even took extra notes because I thought it might help sort out what he was saying... but it didn't. It probably also would have helped to listen to the previous parts of the series. The "points" of his sermon totally didn't make sense to me until he explained them- mainly, the point of "Don't hide behind a hyper-spiritual smoke screen." I understood what he meant after the fact but nevertheless it was still confusing. Don't get me wrong- he was a good public speaker but the content was, as I said, confusing. (What's another word for "confusing"?)

And I should admit that I was partially distracted by the countdown in the back of the room. There was a countdown that started at 20:00 minutes so that the pastor would know when to stop his sermon. He went five minutes over.

He also sounded kind of "country".

Maybe that had something to do with the fact that the majority of the congregation was... uh... white. I don't want to come off sounding racist but I enjoy some diversity so I don't feel totally out of place.

They closed the service with a couple more worship songs, offering (or was that before the sermon?) and a video that was created as a tribute to someone (which was, by the way, hilarious).

I do have to admit that although it was a new building (I am partial to older buildings), it was done decently despite the fact that you couldn't see the full stage from sitting on the side of the room and the acoustics in the main foyer. However, after the service was over, the blinds were pulled up and it was bright! I miss how in older churches, light is important. Nowadays in newer churches, churches tend to go for the "let's put on a show" type vibe and make everything dark except the stage. This makes me feel like I am to just observe worship instead of take part in it sometimes. Just a side note.

Another kind of side note was their graphic design. They seemed to have extremely good graphic design for a church. I have been to numerous churches and not many have had good design. I find that good design contributes to the experience and that poor design can take away form the experience. (I am a visual person and get distracted with the misuse of fonts, margins, Photoshop filters, etc.)


(Sorry for the weird shadows. My dining room has poor lighting.)

Todd took some pictures and I am sure he will post those to you "loyal followers" as he calls you readers. (And me- after all, I am a follower of my own blog.) Not sure about the quality of his pictures. And I do have to say (before Todd says something) that I did take 2-3 really bad photos but in my defense (1) it was not my camera, (2) we were in a moving car, (3) his camera delays a couple precious seconds after you press the button to take a picture (which doesn't help in a moving car) and (3) his camera takes yet more precious seconds before you can take another picture (which also doesn't help in a moving car).

All in all, another interesting church experience. The style was more of what I am accustomed to however it wasn't anything special.

Wonder what is in store for next week...

Saturday, May 14, 2011

Challenge Accepted!!

First off, I would like to say sorry to Emelie for spelling your name wrong in my post. It was great to meet you and you helped us out a lot and I feel like a fool for spelling your name wrong. Sorry.


  After hearing the outcry of our generous fans we will be taking pictures of the churches we go to from now on. I hope you all feel great for stepping up to the first challenge.



  This week Lindsey and I will be going to a church with Zak and Kat, stay tuned for our posts and maybe I will see if Kat or Zak would like to submit something.

Friday, May 13, 2011

Montgomery County Church of Christ

Sorry this is so late but here it is.

  Sunday Lindsey and I went to Montgomery Country Church of Christ and right off the bat I have to say it was a great experience. They meet in a high school but have a pretty decent size congregation and we were greeted by one of the pastors who spoke as we were walking in. After a couple of good mornings we made our way to our seats for worship. Again the music was hymns which I was happy about at first, because I am new school not old school (Another shout out to the Zak man), but they were having an acapella worship experience that was very soothing to my soul. I still did not know the words but Lindsey and I were greeted by one of her students that came to say hi and she brought a hymn book with her. The students name was Emilie and it was a joy to meet her, she ended up sitting with us for the rest of the service. I really appreciated it because any questions I could just ask her and she was able to answer them (Emilie if you are reading this thank you so much and it was great to meet you). While the acapella hymns were great to experience I do not know if I would love it every Sunday but thanks to Emily I know that they have a band that we have just not heard yet.
   After Worship was over we had several men come out with their mothers and both the mothers and the sons shared who there favorite mother in the bible was. I thought this was a great idea and I liked seeing a mother son duo talk and share, after they were done a man talked to us about an organization called Hope Worldwide. They offer support to places that are in need and they partner with this church. There were two offerings, one big plate but in the plate you could give to the church or give to Hope Worldwide. I really enjoyed the option of where I wanted to send my offering if I was giving.  I don’t know this to be true but I would have a lot of respect for this church if they continued to meet in a high school and did not have much technology because they gave a decent part of the offering to Hope Worldwide on a consistent basis. After that talk was the main sermon which was good, not great but good. The guy, who was not the lead pastor, spoke on the idea that we can see God’s heart through mothers of the bible. I like his idea and the scripture he used, he just was not the most gifted speaker but he was good. The last part of the service was young girls sharing how grateful they are for their mothers. This was great to watch and be a part of. Just a nice warm you heart experience as you saw girls get emotional, moms and daughters. 
   After the service we got to meet a bunch of different people who came up to us and they really made us feel welcomed. I got to meet Emilie’s parents which was nice and yes Emilie I talked to your mom for a while, are you embarrassed? I got to learn more about the youth group there and talk to a young youth volunteer. This was nice for me because wherever Lindsey and I end up, working in a youth group again is in my future.
   I only had a couple of things that I did not really like about the church and the first was the hymn books. I just grew up with the words on the screen and it is awkward to me to have to look down at a book and look back up, I am not a fan. Another thing was the child care situation, I am not too sure what it is but I felt like most little kids were in the back of the room and there was so much noise it was distracting. The last was the sound technical side of everything. No one really stood up on the microphone or moved it too close to them. A lot of times it was just hard to understand what people were saying, even when it was the pastors who were talking.
   All in all it was a great experience and Lindsey and I are excited to go back again and see a non holiday service. Maybe now since we have some followers we will start taking some pictures of the places we go. I will say if at least three people leave a comment to this post demanding pictures we will do. That might be a lot considering Lindsey is one of the five followers but the ball is in your court fans, tell us what you want.  

Tuesday, May 10, 2011

Our first follower

   Congratulations to Alec Livieratos for being our first follower on our blog! You are the man, and a great friend.

   On a side note, sorry I am running late with my post. I will try to have it up by tomorrow night. I don't want to disappoint  our loyal fan.

  Thanks again Alec


  

Sunday, May 8, 2011

Montgomery County Church of Christ

Happy Mother's Day to all the mothers out there!

Today, on this lovely Mother's Day, Todd and I attended Montgomery County Church of Christ. We were invited by one of my students! The church is located in Silver Spring and meets in Springbrook High School.

Upon entering, we were quickly greeted and welcomed by the ushers. We were a couple minutes late so when we entered the auditorium, worship had already begun. The congregation consisted of around 200? members. (I am really bad at estimating numbers of people.) Have you ever watched The Sing Off? That was kind of what worship was like this morning. There were several people on stage with microphones and all the hymns were sung acapella. Yes, I said it. Hymns. We had a hymnbook and everything and the words were not on the screen. I enjoyed the music; it sounded good. I don't know if I would enjoy it every Sunday though. Apparently, they have a band that plays once or twice a month as well. I would like to go back and experience that. For one of the songs, one of the guys played a guitar but it didn't change the sound much.

The student that invited us, came and sat with us during the service. She talked us through some of the things that were going on... kind of like a tour guide. I noticed that all her friends- all the youth- were sitting up front, as a group. It was great to see them sit together of their own accord!

About two of the speakers who came on stage to make announcements and whatnot, brought their mothers on stage for Mother's Day. I just thought that was a nice thing. I also noticed that no matter what was talked about, Scripture was appropriately referenced.

One thing I noticed was that before the offering, the speaker at that point gave a small talk on the poor. I have been to many churches but I have never heard anyone give a small talk before an offering like the one I heard today. He made the point that people tend to compare themselves and what they don't have to people who are more well off. We need to be comparing ourselves and what we have to those who are not as fortunate as us. It is a good point and one that I have thought on before.

Communion is done every Sunday, which is nice. Not much more to say on that portion of the service.

I don't think the main pastor spoke this morning but the guy who spoke was pretty decent. It was a short "devotional" type of message for Mother's Day. Basically, he said that a mother's love and compassion and teachings are reflections of God's love and compassions and teachings. It was a nice perspective.

Several young teens came up to thank their mother's. It was really great to see and hear several young ladies talk about their mothers with such gratitude. It brought tears to the eyes of many in the congregation. One of the women even played a song on the piano to thank her mother. It was beautiful!

After the service, Todd and I stayed and talked with my students who attend that church and their parents. We were introduced to some other people as well. We stayed and talked for a good twenty minutes or so. The people seemed to have such a great sense of community.

I would love to go back on a non-"holiday" Sunday. I really enjoyed the people and service. As previously mentioned, I would like to experience the worship when the band is playing.

Maybe we will have a Montgomery County Church of Christ Take II next week!

Friday, May 6, 2011

City of Hope 2

  Lindsey and I visited City of Hope church this past Sunday May 1, 2011 and it was an interesting experience. I will start with what I liked about this church and there were some very good positives about City of Hope. The best thing this church has to offer, in my opinion, was their community. We were greeting by many people while we were there and it was not a greeting team that did it, it was the community of this church that noticed new people there and went out of their way to make us feel welcomed. As my lovely girlfriend said in her post (read her's first if you have not, its better) this church has a small body. She said 50 but I think it might have been smaller so it was not hard to notice new people and I stick out but we felt right at home and very welcomed. The next part of this church that I really enjoyed is they had a praise/prayer request portion of the service. In this portion of the service everyone is encouraged to share anything they need prayer for or share something they just are happy about and want to praise God for. This was very cool to experience. I have only done this in a bible study but done on a larger scale is a reason why they have a great community because everyone can pray and share their lives with each other.

  Now on to the things that were just not for me, the first of which was the very traditional service that was this church. I just am not used to the traditional praying every 5 minutes and so much standing and sitting and reading scripture together aloud. I am not saying its bad, I just have not experienced it so it does not help me connect to God in a church service. The next thing that was not for me is all the hymns, I am not used to hymns and don't have much experience with them and it just was awkward. I am of the mind set that hymns had their place in time and its not this time. As my good friend Zak has said "they are of the old school and we are of the new school". Now I do enjoy an occasional hymn to bring us back to where we came from but just not a full worship service of them. The last thing that I did not connect with was the sermon. We were yelled at for most of the sermon and I know its just how some pastors get the message a crossed but its hard to take away a message when you feel like you have been scolded and you lose yourself in that bad feeling. He started his sermon with a comic book reference, which I was all about because he loves the Vision from Marvel comics and that's just an obscure love, but it never tied into his point at all. His talk was about walking by faith and he repeated that many times but just used different words. I just could not connect with it.

  Well that's it for City of Hope, little church that I feel has tons of potential and I hope they reach it. I am sure we will find our home someplace and we will continue to let God lead our search. Thanks for reading.

  Todd

Thursday, May 5, 2011

City of Hope

This past Sunday, Todd and I attended City of Hope Church in Columbia, MD. It is an extremely small Presbyterian church that meets in the Long Reach Village Center. And when I say small, I mean small. There were less than fifty? people in the room! Because it was so small, there was such a sense of community. Todd and I were greeted by a total of five people/couples that day, which is (sadly) five more than we normally get greeted by at other churches we have visited.

The service started out with testimonies and prayer requests and praises. People in the congregation just stood up and shared. It was a very intimate, caring environment- just like a large small group. It was great! I have never seen or heard this done in a church service before.

The overall service was a bit more traditional. There were liturgical aspects such as group chanted prayers and praises. Although the music was created with a guitar, drum and keyboard, the songs were traditional hymns. I thought it was refreshing to hear hymns I heard and sang when I was growing up however I don't think I could get used to only hymns every single Sunday. I don't think Todd was a fan of the hymns either.

The sermon was delivered by the main pastor. I have to say that this was basically the only thing I disliked about the experience. It was intense. It was loud. It did not fit in with the whole intimate environment. I kind of felt like I was being yelled at at some points. The content of his sermon was repetitive; he spent about thirty minutes restating the same point.

Overall, it was a good experience. I enjoyed visiting a more traditional church to take me back to my childhood church days. However, I don't think I could take traditional on an every Sunday basis. I also need a pastor who I can connect with when I listen to them preach.

Always hope... Maybe next Sunday!